Excuse me. It appears to just be mostly white women. Where are all the white manbuns? Representation matters.

Emotional abuse is real too. This isn’t mindreading. It’s not prediction. It’s anticipation. And it’s emotionally discarding the people around you.

Empathy isn’t even part of what this is the moment you are throwing or feeling any shade.

Have you heard of this book and movement called “non violent communication”? It discusses the downfalls of ‘prediction’ and how to clearly speak personal needs and the value of having fair ground in relationships with a healthier way of communicating with the people you love.(because listening is love too)

https://www.cnvc.org/

Also worth reading the 10 forms of twisted thinking (prediction/mindreading is one of them) https://www.counselinglibrary.org/images/PDF_Documents/CBT_Handouts/10_Forms_of_Twisted_Thinking.pdf

5b - Mindreading “Reading” others’ thoughts

Description: Anxiety/sadness/anger,

Impact: assuming the worst

Replacement: Clear communication

People can sometimes tell how they themselves feel by observing others while injecting wild assumptions born from severe anxiety where they imagine scenarios.

Meet one of my exes. he decided my agency didn’t count in any of the decisions he imposed on me.

He called it empathic. I called it abusive. He later called it anxiety. It was abusive.

basic communication using good old fashion sounds coming out of the mouth and forming words to clear the air like an adult capable of respect for another adult is heavily underrated.

Ah yes, reminded me of an ex. Also had severe anxiety. Which was why he broke it off. Also wanted to get back together to see if ‘he made the right choice’ because apparently I don’t count in any of the decisions he makes for me.

My answer was nope!

Hoodies with shorts is the weirdest dress code to me.

Like a bikini top with ski pants.

I guess some people have different regions of their bodies that run temperatures or maybe they want easy access……ive been watching Kaos again…

It is possible they were there before the base is built so they do have a reason to complain.

But if they are complaining while benefitting from it(better access to amenities as a result) then yeah, they really need to be more realistic about their expectations and how the world works.

NIMBY are the worst.

I once stayed in a long stay and everywhere I went staff would be complaining about long stays. Meanwhile the population was like 3 people and given their location their town could never survive without long stays holding it up. Like we are talking that their resorts had to refit to do BNB long stay or close down. That was their only option to survive. You could clearly see they Overbuilt.

Like ok…we could leave if you really don’t want us there . But so will all your amenities and your jobs… the very amenities and jobs that are only there because we’re bringing you the money to have them.

Pick a lane.

Im supposed to be mad about it? Or are you mad about it? Is that you in the picture? I’m confused. Did I do it wrong?

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Yes but when you say them out loud you can adjust the lengths

So is it still open learning or is it locked down with someone having given a directive in mind?

Cuz if not, time to scramble the algorithm to make it what we want. Spam it with all the anti facism. I say we go full speed Cobert

If you ever had insomnia and lose sleep it’s wild how fast you can go zero to crazy.

But hey, at least it’s all the same real one person