The guys ITT actually like wallowing in self pity and pretending like they’re happy. It’s pretty sad actually.

God damn that is dark. Thank you!

Ah yes. I’ll go right back to the toxic right wing podcast of… Conan O’Brian.

Maybe i missed something in the link, but I meant what the poster above means by calling the source depressing.

I’m calling you all incels because y’all are enjoying a pity party lmao

I’m just an ape on the internet, but you don’t exactly come across as someone who is content with not dating. The whole context of this thread is a big circle jerk of “approaching women doesn’t work to get dates, women don’t want me. I’m not good enough” etc… You have to risk getting hurt if you’re interested in dating. There’s no way around it. And yes, I’m crude, but you do have to fuck before you fall in love.

What is the reality behind it? I don’t watch reality tv.

Calling consensual penetrative sex objectifying is a strange take. Sure, I’m being an dick ITT. But it’s only because there’s a lot of incel circle jerk going on and I personally think incel philosophy doesn’t hold up against blunt force reality.

Social skills are like any other skill. Sure, some have more aptitude for them naturally, but they can be learned. If you really have such poor social skills, I suggest getting a formal diagnosis and seeking out classes to work on it at your local regional center. You will continue to fail as long as you consider social skills as something that others ‘have’ and you ‘don’t have’ and not as a set of perishable skills.

lmao - I’m middle aged and average looking and I haven’t had trouble getting laid since leaving college. It’s not exactly rocket science. Y’all incels need to stop feeling sorry for yourselves and learn the basics of how to convince a lady to hop on your dick.

I thing you and I have vastly different experiences with rejection.

Not really. You really gotta keep trying. It’s a numbers game to an extent. Eventually, you can always find a Mrs. Right now, even if she isn’t your dream girl.

I was raised on the premise that women want to be left alone I assumed that in time and when ready, they would be the ones to initiate.

I’m sure you realize now that these are both just incorrect. Get out there and talk to women. Your dick will remain dry until you can master the art of conversing with the opposite sex and making them laugh.

Reddit sucks now though. I feel like this place is coming into its own.

There are a lot of options on tee public these days.

I think most people are into it for the flex factor, i.e. as an indicator of conspicuous consumption and therefore status. A lot of people genuinely give a shit about that stuff. Some even organize their whole lives around it.